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June 16, 2006

Friday is nasty slut day - pt 1

Ok, I lied. Every day is nasty slut day. But this Friday I'm celebrating. To the blogs that make me pull out my hair (no, I don't know why I bother)!

Twisty says

Flame me if you will, but I posit nevertheless that no woman, since the dawn of
the patriarchal co-option of human sexuality, has ever actually enjoyed this
submissive sexbot drudgery. There’s a reason that deep-throating a funk-filled
bratwurst makes a person retch.*

How dare I presume to impugn the
sanctity of a woman’s right to the blow job? I do so mostly on accounta I will
get a big bang out of the impassioned arguments defending it.

______________________

*Reason: It’s fucking gross.


Whatever. Boring. What's interesting to me is some of the comments.

I could never understand how men could be so crazy about getting a blowjob. It’s
easily my least favorite act of common sex. Though the messy smelly and
ultimately depressing act of anal sex is almost as bad. As imagined in the
pornographic fancies of most men they are each uncomfortable for the woman, but
anal sex at least is slightly more comfortable for men, though the ick factor in
certain of the textures encountered therein is pretty high.
Sigh.


Can’t it be said that oral sex in general, whether it be fellatio or
cunnilingus, is excellent for the receiver and kind of a drag for the provider?
The thread here seems to be that giving someone pleasure is not actually enjoyable. Uh, what?


Pushing something roughly the size of a cucumber repeatedly into my mouth for
about as long as a guy thinks a bj ought to last
, then, when the gag reflex is
entirely stimulated, depositing a oddly-textured, foul-tasting wad of warm gook
into my mouth — nuh, uh. I’m done.

Cunnilingus, on the other hand, is warm and soft and wet and sweet.

With the last fews guys I’ve dated, I’ve told them that I will discuss the possibility of giving them a bj, just as soon as they give a bj to another man, so they can fully understand what it is they’re asking of me. So far, no takers.
Wow, if that's how they feel about it, I certainly don't think they should be giving blowjobs. But damn.

Here’s what I think is going on. Women want to be valued and appreciated by men.
Men like their dicks sucked. So, women engage in sucking dick and those who do
not consider their mouths to be an erogenous zones convince themselves it’s
pleasurable because it gives them so much “power.” And sadly, in this
Patriarchal shithole world of ours, blow jobs are the equivalent of power for
many women.

But that doesn’t mean you have to swallow cum and tell us
all it’s caviar. At best it’s something nice to do for a guy whom you care
about. At worst, it’s another humiliating compromise of dignity that women do to
please men and then tell each other how much they fucking love it and how damned
empowering/pleasurable it is.
Well, we all know how much I love internalizing patriarchy, so I'll just shut my brainwashed, cock-filled mouth.

While I don’t think fellatio is inherently degrading, I think that porn has given it a lot of bad connotations which is why I think a lot of guys like getting head. Well, that and it feels good.


And, I had to just stop there. Who the fuck are these people? I don't get it.




Comments:
There has seem to be rash of these losers lately...I vented awhile ago, but now I just shake my head and think how sad for you.
 
Yeah, I'm getting to that point as well. More or less.
 
now, of course, twisty is ignoring all the people who criticized, and focusing on the few who went too far.

here's the thing. A dangerous zealot on the far end of my beliefs is still a dangerous zealot in my book.
 
honest? I read parts of the thread, but wow! i'd honestly thought that most women enjoyed it these days. the women in my world seem to like it at any rate.

why does't the one who won't suck cock but wants to be eaten out just become a lesbian. why put anyone through that. you hate his body that much?

i'm with you: i don't get it. when you love someone, you just want to enjoy everything about them and you want to make them happy, as happy as they make you.

i try to understand: tastes are different. but, i don't know. the long terms i've had are men who don't care if I fart. in fact, they take that as a sign of true love! i get up in the morning without brushing my teeth, they want a hug and i'm continually amazed as to why, but there it is.

and then i feel bad for having been so lucky. i'm sure if i hadn't just moved on from some of the stranger birds i met, i would have gotten a taste of the b.s., but still.

oh. i just sound so bitchy there but i was glad someone else said: i don't get it. coz i don't. if you're lesbian: i get it. het? in love? i dont' get how pussies can be so wonderful and male ejaculant is gross.

just sign me off as,

snowball
 
BL/Snowball,

Now that some of my anger has died down, it actually makes me sad. I've never been a dick hater, but it must be hard to be straight and be disgusted by them. But, I also never think of a penis separate from the man. So, I try to steer clear of men that disgust me, and save the head for the good ones.
 
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